Communication for a Better Life
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As the speaker and facilitator, David B. Alexander brings his experience as a psychotherapist, consultant, partner, and parent, as well as integrating a lifelong practice and teaching of meditation and Tai Chi Chuan.
David's therapy work is focused on individuals and couples, as well as organizational therapy for leaders and their teams, leading to connection, well-being, and achieving more of one's goals in life. He teaches communication skills especially to couples coming to improve their relationships.
The various presentations about and discussions of communication, especially Nonviolent Communication (NVC), are dedicated to making life better for group participants, through better understanding of self and other and through better communication choices
These events are enriching, safe opportunities for learning how to deepen relationships of all kinds through better communication, including through authenticity towards oneself, achieving more often the results we desire. As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
Topics for Nonviolent Communication include:
- Compassion vs. Labeling and Judgment
- Observation vs. Diagnosis and Evaluation
- Listening With Empathy
- Feelings, Needs, and Requests
- Expressing Anger's Core
- Protection vs. Punishment
- Liberation From Internal Programming
Other meetings will have various specific topics. Past topics have included Solving the Roots of Conflict; Having the Difficult Conversation; and Communication in the Workplace.
Lastly, we will also be having unscripted meetings open to any issue of communication that participants wish to bring up.
After presentations, there is always time for questions and answers as well as discussion; some meetings are facilitated discussion only
Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in a discussion, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.
Events take place online via Zoom, and may in the future also take place in person, in Long Island or Manhattan at announced addresses.
Webinars can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking. Attendees who do not wish to be seen can disable their video, and those who do not wish to speak (or if there is background noise in the attendee's area) can mute their microphone so as to hear the webinar discussion without speaking.
You can call David B. Alexander at (718) 229-2609, if you have any questions.

“I thought the the webinar was outstanding. Although I have some familiarity with the concepts of nonviolent communication, I felt that the webinar greatly expanded my knowledge in this area and gave me useful information and techniques that I can apply to improve my relationships with my family and friends.”
Ken Z.

“The amount of information was terrific, dialogue was great. I wouldn't change anything. I thought meeting everyone was wonderful and having the dialogue. I am interested in attending more webinars.”
Karen C.

“Perfect. Very Comfortable interaction. A professional presentation. I liked listening to your personal experiences and those of others.”
Michele F.

“I thought it was very effective and constructive. I enjoyed the candor of presenters and openness to discuss concerns and clarify.”
Karen S.
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Saturday, February 22 · 11am EST (1h 30m)
Join this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and wel…
Read moreJoin this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and well-being.
How can you give honest feedback and still keep or improve a good relationship? What if your partner asks you "Do I look good in these pants?" and you think "No"? If a friend has started a business and is about to invest a lot of time and money into it, but you feel it is a bad idea: what do you say, if anything? What if someone you care about is entering into a romantic relationship that seems unhealthy to you: what do you do or say?
These are typical of what can be difficult but important choices in how we communicate, making a relationship deeper or creating stress in a relationship, and potentially helping others and ourselves along a good path in life, even through small interactions.
The goal in good communication is that all parties in the process can feel seen and heard, and come out with a stronger, positive connection to others. But honesty is a consideration that can complicate that process. On one hand, William Blake said "A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent." On the other hand, authenticity in communication is crucial for strengthening the profound connections that are part of a well-lived life.
The event is facilitated by David B. Alexander, LP. In it, we will discuss communication principles, and will also apply Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to issues or questions that the attendees bring in, and the facilitator will help guide the dialogue. There will be prepared scenarios to discuss, as well as time to look at situations that participants may bring in.
What is "nonviolent communication", and what is violence in communication? Violent communication can show itself in subtle ways that are hardly noticed, so the word "violent" might be surprising. However, the theme is that violent communication tends to disrupt empathy and relationships, while nonviolent communication is a win/win kind of communication that brings people together.
Nonviolent Communication is an approach to communication and relationships that is based on empathic connection, but that also provides a clear description and understanding of what kinds of communication help bring more joy and vitality into life, and what kinds of communication prolong conflict or separation.
As a psychotherapist, David has seen the great value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
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Saturday, March 22 · 11am EDT (1h 30m)
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Read moreJoin this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and well-being.
What if you have been having a good time recently with your partner, or your child or parent? How do you express that? What if someone in your life takes a chance and is vulnerable (doing something with which they are not comfortable but that is positive) with you? How do you respond to fully support the moment of their sharing?
The goal in good communication is that all parties in the process can feel seen and heard, and come out with a stronger, positive connection to others.
The event is facilitated by David B. Alexander, LP. In it, we will discuss and experiences the principles and examples of good communication. We will also apply the Nonviolent Communication approach to issues or questions that the attendees bring in, and David will facilitate the dialogue. If there are not enough issues or questions brought by attendees, there will be sample situations provided for discussion.
So-called "violent" communication can show itself in subtle ways that are hardly noticed, so the word "violent" might be surprising. However, the meaning is that violent communication is any communication which tends to disrupt empathy and relationships, while nonviolent communication is a win / win kind of communication that brings people together.
Nonviolent Communication is an approach to communication and relationships that is based on empathic connection, but that also provides a clear description and understanding of what kinds of communication help bring more joy and vitality into life, and what kinds of communication prolong conflict or separation.
As a psychotherapist, David has seen the great value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
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Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.
The workshop meeting will take place online via Zoom. The meeting can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow seeing all participants more easily.
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Saturday, May 3 · 11am EDT (2h)
Good communication makes for more enjoyable and enduring relationships, and more personal fulfillment. In this webinar, David…
Read moreGood communication makes for more enjoyable and enduring relationships, and more personal fulfillment. In this webinar, David B. Alexander, LP (licensed psychotherapist) will present some of the primary principles of Nonviolent Communication, and their application in daily life. After the presentation, there will be time for questions and answers. Discussion will also be invited as a way to engage those attending in a more direct way. See some testimonials below.
This will be an enriching, safe opportunity for learning how to deepen relationships of all kinds through better communication, including through authenticity towards oneself, achieving more often the results we desire.
As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
Topics that will be covered include:
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Compassion vs. Labeling and Judgment
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Observation vs. Diagnosis and Evaluation
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Listening With Empathy
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Feelings, Needs, and Requests
- Liberation From Our Internal Programming
There will also be interactive exercises allowing participants to share connection with each other while becoming more aware of their own ability to communicate more fully.
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David's workshop on Non-violent Communication was insightful, practical and interactive. I especially appreciated the time he took to listen to and respond to people's real-life communication challenges. Practical and thoughtful workshop especially relevant in today's turbulent times.
~ Terre Passero, President, Mindful Stress Management
I recently attended one of the online webinars hosted by this amazing psychotherapist and speaker. I was blown away by the depth of knowledge and wisdom that was shared during the session. I highly recommend attending one of his sessions in the future, you will not be disappointed!
~ Andrey Volodin, doctoral student and software engineer
I enjoyed every minute of the webinar. Your discussion of the important issues was very informative, useful and helpful. Your encouragement of us, the attendees, to participate and express our opinion was very valuable. I highly appreciate your professionalism, knowledge, experience, courtesy and patience.
The atmosphere at the meeting was very friendly and kind. I believe, no one (including myself) was uncomfortable in sharing the personal story(ies) and concerns. I further believe, that under your amazing guidance and leadership in the discussion, we all benefited from this meeting. Great job, David!
Thank you very much, and I look forward to your meetings in the future.~ Olga Ruh, Attorney
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Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion after the presentation, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.
The webinar meeting will take place online via Zoom. The webinar can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking.
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Review and practice core components of Tai Chi Chuan: Short Form Refinement, Push-Hands, and Punching/Applications. Deepen your practice.
The workshop takes place in Manhattan from 3:00pm to 6:00pm, meeting at 440 Lafayette Street, Room 4G, New York 10003. Ring the buzzer "Playwrights." For weekly classes in LI, read here.