Communication for a Better Life
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As the speaker and facilitator, David B. Alexander brings his experience as a psychotherapist, consultant, partner, and parent, as well as integrating a lifelong practice and teaching of meditation and Tai Chi Chuan.
David's therapy work is focused on individuals and couples, as well as organizational therapy for leaders and their teams, leading to connection, well-being, and achieving more of one's goals in life. He teaches communication skills especially to couples coming to improve their relationships.
The various presentations about and discussions of communication, especially Nonviolent Communication (NVC), are dedicated to making life better for group participants, through better understanding of self and other and through better communication choices
These events are enriching, safe opportunities for learning how to deepen relationships of all kinds through better communication, including through authenticity towards oneself, achieving more often the results we desire. As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
Topics on core principles of Nonviolent Communication include:
Compassion vs. Labeling and Judgment
Observation vs. Diagnosis and Evaluation
Listening With Empathy
Feelings, Needs, and Requests
Expressing Anger's Core
Protection vs. Punishment
Liberation From Internal Programming
In addition to the introduction to NVC, webinars on specific communication topics from past years have included, for example, Expressing Yourself and Overcoming Inner Conflict; Enjoying the Difficult Conversation; and No Matter What, Appreciation and Celebration. These and others are being offered this year as well.
After presentations, there is always time for questions and answers as well as discussion.
Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in a discussion, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.
Events take place online via Zoom, and may in the future also take place in Long Island or Manhattan at announced addresses.
Webinars can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking. Attendees who do not wish to be seen can disable their video. Except when they are about to speak, attendees should mute their microphones so as to hear the webinar discussion and avoid adding background sounds.
"I thought the the webinar was outstanding. Although I have some familiarity with the concepts of nonviolent communication, I felt that the webinar greatly expanded my knowledge in this area and gave me useful information and techniques that I can apply to improve my relationships with my family and friends."
Ken Z.
The amount of information was terrific, dialogue was great. I wouldn't change anything. I thought meeting everyone was wonderful and having the dialogue. I am interested in attending more webinars.
Karen C.
Perfect. Very Comfortable interaction. A professional presentation. I liked listening to your personal experiences and those of others.
Michele F.
I thought it was very effective and constructive. I enjoyed the candor of presenters and openness to discuss concerns and clarify.
Karen S.
"I thought the the webinar was outstanding. Although I have some familiarity with the concepts of nonviolent communication, I felt that the webinar greatly expanded my knowledge in this area and gave me useful information and techniques that I can apply to improve my relationships with my family and friends."
Ken Z.
The amount of information was terrific, dialogue was great. I wouldn't change anything. I thought meeting everyone was wonderful and having the dialogue. I am interested in attending more webinars.
Karen C.
Perfect. Very Comfortable interaction. A professional presentation. I liked listening to your personal experiences and those of others.
Michele F.
I thought it was very effective and constructive. I enjoyed the candor of presenters and openness to discuss concerns and clarify.
Karen S.
Upcoming Commuication Events
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This live, online series combines insights and practical daily life expression using effective, powerful, and empathic communication.
Through engaging presentations and discussion, participants explore ways to find more peace and fulfillment, communicate more clearly, and handle connection as well as potential conflicts or complex situations more skillfully, leading to a more enjoyable experience of life.
The series includes these sessions, one per month, each on a Saturday. The series cost drops as each webinar in the series passes by. The time for each is from 11am to 1pm Eastern time (UTC -4 and UTC -5):
- (past) Being a Leader, Being Led, and "Power With" - September 26 - leadership through authenticity and inspiration
- (past) Communication for Parents and Children of All Ages - October 10 - overcome the limitations of stereotypical family relations
- Enjoying the Difficult Conversation and Making Things Better - November 14 - enjoy the peak experiences of relating
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Expressing Yourself and Overcoming Inner Conflict - December 12 - centering yourself and leaving inner conflict behind
About David
David B. Alexander teaches effective and enjoyable communication to individuals and couples, as well as to executives and business owners, so that they can thrive in the social and working world in which we all live. A primary focus for his communication work is an approach called Nonviolent Communication, or "NVC". He also has a lifelong practice and teaching of Zen and Tai Chi Chuan.
NVC emphasizes authenticity in communication, but authenticity based on an empathetic understanding of self and others. NVC expression can be loud or quiet, diplomatic or direct, but is always intended to benefit all parties who are involved.
As a licensed psychotherapist, David also finds value in gestalt therapy principles, existential therapy, and modern psychoanalytic understanding. These are all approaches towards awakening for a fulfilling life.
In addition to psychotherapy work, he has been practicing Zen since the age of 20 and Tai Chi Chuan since the age of 25, and has been teaching since the early 1990s.
From David: I enjoy working as a therapist and coach with thoughtful individuals and couples from all walks of life. Psychotherapy sessions are available online across New York State, and in person in Roslyn Heights, NY; leadership support is available anywhere English is spoken. A free 20-minute consultation is available for those curious about working together. All inquiries are confidential.
For topics of communication, well-being, spiritual life, purpose, and success check this blog, or live online talks also on these topics. You can check out those resources, and sign up for the newsletter.
This live, online series combines insights and practical daily life expression using effective, powerful, and empathic communication.
Through engaging presentations and discussion, participants explo…
Saturday, November 14 · 11am – 1pm ET
Have there been, or are there now, important conversations that you have wanted to start, but felt nervous about doing so? Or actions that would initiate engagement with others in a way that is more intense and unpredictable than the usual?
In this live, interactive webinar we will explore this topic together.
In addition to the simple interactions that make up daily greetings and pleasantries, there are conversations and exchanges that involve important and often challenging content: hurt, anger, and even feelings of love and emotional intimacy, which can all be difficult to initiate, or to fully take in when offered by another person.
And yet, these same, somewhat raw conversations provide the opportunity for deeper mutual connection, as well as supporting one's own well-being and vitality.
Topics we will discuss include:
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The benefits of expression vs. silence: bringing more life to your life
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Handling anger well
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Handling affection and empathy well
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Reframing the conversation by realizing the positive at the root of the negative
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"Good" words / "bad" words: which words and phrases create more conflict, and which heal
We invite all participants to bring in their own real-life questions and challenges around the above topics, or other topics related to "difficult conversations."
About David
David B. Alexander teaches effective and enjoyable communication to individuals and couples, as well as to executives and business owners, so that they can thrive in the social and working world in which we all live. A primary focus for his communication work is an approach called Nonviolent Communication, or "NVC".
NVC emphasizes authenticity in communication, but authenticity based on an empathetic understanding of self and others. NVC expression can be loud or quiet, diplomatic or direct, but is always intended to benefit all parties who are involved.
As a licensed psychotherapist, David also finds value in gestalt therapy principles, existential therapy, and modern psychoanalytic understanding. These are all approaches towards awakening for a fulfilling life.
In addition to psychotherapy work, he has been studying Zen since the age of 20 and Tai Chi Chuan since the age of 25, and has been teaching Tai Chi Chuan since the early 1990s.
From David: I enjoy working as a therapist and coach with thoughtful individuals and couples from all walks of life. Psychotherapy sessions are available online across New York State, and in person in Roslyn Heights, NY; leadership support is available anywhere English is spoken. A free 20-minute consultation is available for those curious about working together. All inquiries are confidential.
For topics of communication, well-being, spiritual life, purpose, and success check this blog, or live online talks also on these topics. You can check out those resources, and sign up for the newsletter.
Saturday, November 14 · 11am – 1pm ET
Have there been, or are there now, important conversations that you have wanted to start, but felt nervous about doing so? Or actions that would initiate engagem…
Saturday, December 12 · 11am – 1pm ET
Expressing ourselves from a deep place is rewarding in so many ways.
Yet it can be hard to express affection, for reasons such as fear of rejection or fear of becoming committed beyond the comfort zone. And it can be hard to express frustration or anger, for reasons such as fear of alienating the other or fear of doing harm.
In this live, interactive webinar, we will explore this topic together.
Our inner urges and wishes often may not match what we are able to express. But with good communication skills, we can start to see a path that avoids the fears and lack of clarity mentioned above.
Join this interactive workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and well-being.
There is no single formula for good communication. However, when we are genuine with other people, it encourages authenticity, and people start to truly understand and appreciate each other's feelings and needs. And by expressing from a deeper level, we start to understand ourselves better, as well. All of that leads to more fulfilling relationships, an ability to work out solutions when there is disagreement and conflict, and a better, realistic sense of self-esteem.
About David
David B. Alexander teaches effective and enjoyable communication to individuals and couples, as well as to executives and business owners, so that they can thrive in the social and working world in which we all live. A primary focus for his communication work is an approach called Nonviolent Communication, or "NVC".
NVC emphasizes authenticity in communication, but authenticity based on an empathetic understanding of self and others. NVC expression can be loud or quiet, diplomatic or direct, but is always intended to benefit all parties who are involved.
As a licensed psychotherapist, David also finds value in gestalt therapy principles, existential therapy, and modern psychoanalytic understanding. These are all approaches towards awakening for a fulfilling life.
In addition to psychotherapy work, he has been studying Zen since the age of 20 and Tai Chi Chuan since the age of 25, and has been teaching since the early 1990s.
From David: I enjoy working as a therapist and coach with thoughtful individuals and couples from all walks of life. Psychotherapy sessions are available online across New York State, and in person in Roslyn Heights, NY; leadership support is available anywhere English is spoken. A free 20-minute consultation is available for those curious about working together. All inquiries are confidential.
For topics of communication, well-being, spiritual life, purpose, and success check this blog, or live online talks also on these topics. You can check out those resources, and sign up for the newsletter.
Saturday, December 12 · 11am – 1pm ET
Expressing ourselves from a deep place is rewarding in so many ways.
Yet it can be hard to express affection, for reasons such as fear of rejection or fear of b…
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“David is a superbly gifted Organizational Therapist who is able to help guide entrepreneurs in growing their businesses while navigating the highly unpredictable environment that we find ourselves in.
Unlike many psychotherapists he has a long-established track record of working and advising in the real world, which allows him to help his clients deal with real world problem solving. If you have an established business which is coping with a changing times, or an entrepreneur looking to unlock growth and opportunities I would highly recommend David as a consultant.”
Michael Pinto
Entrepreneurial Product Designer and CEO of Very Memorable
“I had both the privilege and good fortune to first connect with David in 2019. In retaining his services, I found him to be highly professional, insightful, authentic, patient, and kind. I greatly appreciated his direct approach, thoughtful consideration, and engaging manner.
As it turns out, the feedback and insight he provided me turned out to be absolutely spot on, over the course of time. It is a pleasure to recommend David as a pragmatic, discerning, and intuitive counselor, therapist, and leader.”
Eben Wilson
Founder and CEO, Exaio Systems
“David recently did a presentation on non-violent communication on behalf of one of my clients, an HR firm. To say that he hit it out of the ballpark would be an understatement. He was engaging, used real-world scenarios and examples and provided the attendees with actionable take-aways to help them navigate the sometimes-tricky world of intergenerational workplace communication.
David is genuine and empathetic. Even during a brief training, his message resonated with this audience of business owners, HR managers and C-suite executives. We received extremely positive feedback from the attendees and highly recommend David for consulting and training in this area.”
Theresa Jacobellis
President, PrescRXptive Communications, LLC
“David is a superbly gifted Organizational Therapist who is able to help guide entrepreneurs in growing their businesses while navigating the highly unpredictable environment that we find ourselves in.
Unlike many psychotherapists he has a long-established track record of working and advising in the real world, which allows him to help his clients deal with real world problem solving. If you have an established business which is coping with a changing times, or an entrepreneur looking to unlock growth and opportunities I would highly recommend David as a consultant.”
Michael Pinto
Entrepreneurial Product Designer and CEO of Very Memorable
“I had both the privilege and good fortune to first connect with David in 2019. In retaining his services, I found him to be highly professional, insightful, authentic, patient, and kind. I greatly appreciated his direct approach, thoughtful consideration, and engaging manner.
As it turns out, the feedback and insight he provided me turned out to be absolutely spot on, over the course of time. It is a pleasure to recommend David as a pragmatic, discerning, and intuitive counselor, therapist, and leader.”
Eben Wilson
Founder and CEO, Exaio Systems
“David recently did a presentation on non-violent communication on behalf of one of my clients, an HR firm. To say that he hit it out of the ballpark would be an understatement. He was engaging, used real-world scenarios and examples and provided the attendees with actionable take-aways to help them navigate the sometimes-tricky world of intergenerational workplace communication.
David is genuine and empathetic. Even during a brief training, his message resonated with this audience of business owners, HR managers and C-suite executives. We received extremely positive feedback from the attendees and highly recommend David for consulting and training in this area.”
Theresa Jacobellis
President, PrescRXptive Communications, LLC