Events: free, interactive webinars

Communication, Including Nonviolent Communication

In these interactive presentations and workshops led by David B. Alexander, LP, we will study and experience importance aspects of communication and relationships.

We will also apply insightful and compassionate communication to issues or questions that the attendees bring in. If there are no issues or questions brought by attendees, the facilitator will provide sample situations for discussion.

As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.

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Modern Zen and Buddhism

Zen and Buddhism are, in essence, the same topic. Zen is known for its more concise expression, while the original Buddhist teachings discuss, with great care and detail, human nature and how to transform suffering. Each has its place!

Most important is helping reduce suffering in today's world, through wisdom and compassion attuned to the realities and choices of daily life.

As a long-time practitioner of Zen, David B. Alexander presents and discusses the meaning of this ancient teaching for each of us today. Zen and Buddhism are the study of and the connection with our true selves.

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Upcoming events: all categories

  • Saturday, March 22 · 10am CDT (1h 30m)

    Join this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and wel…

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    Join this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and well-being.

    How do you express that? What if someone in your life takes a chance and is vulnerable--sharing or doing something with which they are not usually comfortable--with you?

    How do you respond to fully support the moment and their choice? These important moments can slip by us unawares, but practicing attunement can help respond more fully in every moment.

    "Appreciation" is having a feeling of gratitude inside you.  "Celebration" is expression of that appreciation in a way that connects with other people. Both aspects are important!

    And here is a question: how can we live with appreciation and celebration when we see struggle and confusion in our surroundings? We are all faced with this question, and we will explore some answers for this question using experiential exercises and discussion as a group.

    The primary focus will be on appreciation and celebration, with awareness that there are causes for stress and overwhelm due to factors we do not control.

    The event is facilitated by David B. Alexander, Licensed Psychotherapist and gestalt therapist. In addition to being a psychotherapist, David's longtime practice of Zen and Tai Chi Chuan is especially relevant now, because finding answers to life's larger challenges require deep resources.

    Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is an approach to communication and relationships that is based on empathic connection, and that also provides a clear description and understanding of what kinds of communication help bring more joy and vitality into life, and what kinds of communication prolong conflict or separation.

    Together with a large view of our life and of our true nature, these approaches provide answers to doing well in adverse circumstances--and in good circumstances!

    As a psychotherapist, David has seen the great value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.

    The workshop meeting will take place online via Zoom. The meeting can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow seeing all participants more easily.

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  • Saturday, April 26 · 10am CDT (1h 30m)

    Most of us know karma as, basically, the concept that our thoughts and actions have consequences, whether immediately or at s…

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    Most of us know karma as, basically, the concept that our thoughts and actions have consequences, whether immediately or at some future time. Although that statement captures the basic principle of karma, there is significantly more to karma than that.

    Another important teaching is the Four Immeasurables, which can be seen as a solution for creating good karma, leading to liberation. To find our true freedom we need to use our higher capacities as human beings, which help us break free from limitations. Actions that are "clean", and do not create bad karma, help us toward our own and others' liberation.

    Our higher capacities allow us to cultivate a mind that frees itself from following past negative karma, gradually breaking those chains. By connecting to one's unlimited mind rather than to the narrow mind, we can help free ourselves and others from painful complications in living.

    During and after the presentation we will discuss and practice these principles, and enjoy community.

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    The teacher, David B. Alexander, has practiced Zen and studied with leading teachers for more decades than he would like to declare. With approval from recognized Zen masters, he is offering these talks on Zen and Buddhism.

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  • Saturday, May 3 · 10am CDT (2h)

    Good communication makes for more enjoyable and enduring relationships, and more personal fulfillment. In this webinar, David…

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    Good communication makes for more enjoyable and enduring relationships, and more personal fulfillment. In this webinar, David B. Alexander, LP (licensed psychotherapist) will present some of the primary principles of Nonviolent Communication, and their application in daily life. After the presentation, there will be time for questions and answers. Discussion will also be invited as a way to engage those attending in a more direct way. See some testimonials below.

    This will be an enriching, safe opportunity for learning how to deepen relationships of all kinds through better communication, including through authenticity towards oneself, achieving more often the results we desire.

    As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.

    Topics that will be covered include:

    • Compassion vs. Labeling and Judgment

    • Observation vs. Diagnosis and Evaluation

    • Listening With Empathy

    • Feelings, Needs, and Requests

    • Liberation From Our Internal Programming

    There will also be interactive exercises allowing participants to share connection with each other while becoming more aware of their own ability to communicate more fully.

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    David's workshop on Non-violent Communication was insightful, practical and interactive. I especially appreciated the time he took to listen to and respond to people's real-life communication challenges. Practical and thoughtful workshop especially relevant in today's turbulent times.

    ~ Terre Passero, President, Mindful Stress Management

    I recently attended one of the online webinars hosted by this amazing psychotherapist and speaker. I was blown away by the depth of knowledge and wisdom that was shared during the session. I highly recommend attending one of his sessions in the future, you will not be disappointed!

    ~ Andrey Volodin, doctoral student and software engineer

    I enjoyed every minute of the webinar. Your discussion of the important issues was very informative, useful and helpful. Your encouragement of us, the attendees, to participate and express our opinion was very valuable. I highly appreciate your professionalism, knowledge, experience, courtesy and patience.

    The atmosphere at the meeting was very friendly and kind. I believe, no one (including myself) was uncomfortable in sharing the personal story(ies) and concerns. I further believe, that under your amazing guidance and leadership in the discussion, we all benefited from this meeting. Great job, David!

    Thank you very much, and I look forward to your meetings in the future.

    ~ Olga Ruh, Attorney

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    Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion after the presentation, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.

    The webinar meeting will take place online via Zoom. The webinar can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking.

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Other Resources for a better, more aware life

Escaping From Freedom

Free ebook

In times of division and loss of understanding ("How can 'those people' believe in that?"), we need to look more closely, with an open mind and heart.

This 19-page ebook builds on the insights of Erich Fromm's iconic 1941 book Escape From Freedom, with updated observations by psychoanalyst David B. Alexander.

Make sense of and find peace in today's world through better understanding. See the table of contents, and download your copy.

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Learn Tai Chi Chuan Short Form

Classes in Long Island and NYC

Improve your well-being and vitality. You can do this through Tai Chi Chuan practiced with its full historical meaning and benefits.

It is a martial art and a practice benefiting well-being and physical health. Those active in music and dance performance have also reported important improvements.

Tai Chi Chuan helps our brain free itself from unwanted tensions, promoting an ability to respond productively, compassionately, and with much less stress in life's daily activities.

Inquiries by advanced students are welcome.

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