It can be hard to express affection, for reasons such as fear of rejection or fear of becoming committed beyond the comfort zone. And it can be hard to express frustration or anger, for reasons such as fear of alienating the other or fear of doing harm. Our inner urges and wishes often may not match what we are able to express.
With good communication skills, we can start to see a path that avoids the fears and lack of clarity mentioned above.
Join this interactive, free monthly workshop dedicated to improving on important relationships and your own awareness and well-being.
There is no single formula for good communication. However, when we are genuine with other people, it encourages authenticity, and people start to truly understand and appreciate each other's feelings and needs. And by expressing from a deeper level, we start to understand ourselves better, as well. All of that leads to more fulfilling relationships, an ability to work out solutions when there is disagreement and conflict, and a better, realistic sense of self-esteem.
The event is facilitated by David B. Alexander, LP. In it, we will apply Nonviolent Communication to issues or questions that the attendees bring in, and David will facilitate the dialogue. If there are not enough issues or questions brought by attendees, there will be sample situations provided for discussion.
Nonviolent Communication is an approach to communication and relationships that is based on empathic connection, but that also provides a clear description and understanding of what kinds of communication help bring more joy and vitality into life, and what kinds of communication prolong conflict or separation.
The word "violent" in so-called violent communication indicates that there are subtle or not-so-subtle kinds of communication that tend to cause alienation between people. Violent communication can be any words, actions, silence, or inaction that disrupts empathic connection between people, while nonviolent communication is a win/win kind of communication that brings people together.
As a psychotherapist, David has seen the great value of these principles, and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.
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Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.
The workshop meeting will take place online via Zoom. The meeting can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow seeing all participants more easily.
It can be hard to express affection, for reasons such as fear of rejection or fear of becoming committed beyond the comfort zone. And it can be hard to express frustration or anger, for reasons such a…