Events: free, interactive webinars

Communication, Including Nonviolent Communication

In these interactive presentations and workshops led by David B. Alexander, LP, we will study and experience importance aspects of communication and relationships.

We will also apply insightful and compassionate communication to issues or questions that the attendees bring in. If there are no issues or questions brought by attendees, the facilitator will provide sample situations for discussion.

As a psychotherapist, David has seen the value of these principles and has guided numerous couples and individuals to improve the quality of their communication and their relationships.

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Modern Zen and Buddhism

Zen and Buddhism are, in essence, the same topic. Zen is known for its more concise expression, while the original Buddhist teachings discuss, with great care and detail, human nature and how to transform suffering. Each has its place!

Most important is helping reduce suffering in today's world, through wisdom and compassion attuned to the realities and choices of daily life.

As a long-time practitioner of Zen, David B. Alexander presents and discusses the meaning of this ancient teaching for each of us today. Zen and Buddhism are the study of and the connection with our true selves.

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Upcoming events: all categories

  • Saturday, May 17 · 11am EDT (2h)

    Join this interactive webinar for a grounded introduction to Zen and Buddhism: the Middle WayFour Noble Truths, Eightfold P…

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    Join this interactive webinar for a grounded introduction to Zen and Buddhism: the Middle WayFour Noble Truths, Eightfold Path, and Three Treasures. We will also discuss how to integrate the wisdom and energy of Zen and Buddhism into modern life. You can benefit by finding your authentic, positive mindset while letting go of stress and worries.There is no fee for this event.

    Video describing the webinarThe lotus flower, often used as a symbol of Buddhist insight and wisdom, rises invisibly through mud and muddy water, and opens up pure and clean despite its history and surroundings. If we can keep on the right path while in the middle of activity and challenges, we can finally drop struggles of the past and live a life of true freedom and compassion.

    The topics include a basic short history of Buddhism, primary principles, the impact of Zen, and integration with modern life.

    The principles and concepts that are covered are:

    The Middle Way: a crucial piece of understanding for maintaining one's balance and staying on a healthy and effective path towards self-knowledge.

    The Four Noble Truths: these address the root meaning of Buddhism: an understanding that life not lived well is ultimately full of inadequacy and pain, but that with a right understanding and effort, we move towards being free of suffering, while helping life on this planet be more humane and awakened.

    The Eightfold Path: addresses in a specific manner the key components for living the best possible life, a life that benefits self and others, that reduces suffering, and that leads to liberation.

    The Three Treasures: concerns the elements that support following the path towards awakening and liberation.

    We will also examine the direct expression used in Zen and how it captures the emotion and wisdom of life without using religious references, and will talk about how to see Zen and Buddhism as a modern teaching.

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    Here are some testimonials from past presentations (not necessarily about Zen):

    “I thought the the webinar was outstanding. Although I have some familiarity with the concepts of nonviolent communication, I felt that the webinar greatly expanded my knowledge in this area and gave me useful information and techniques that I can apply to improve my relationships with my family and friends.” ~ Ken Z.

    “The amount of information was terrific, dialogue was great. I wouldn't change anything. I thought meeting everyone was wonderful and having the dialogue. I am interested in attending more webinars.” ~ Karen C.

    “Perfect. Very Comfortable interaction. A professional presentation. I liked listening to your personal experiences and those of others.” ~ Michele F.

    "I was impressed that people actually felt comfortable enough to share incidents / issues from their own lives. Suggests they felt comfortable with you." ~ Mary Ann H.

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    The teacher and facilitator, David B. Alexander, has practiced Zen since 1970, with teachers at the New York Zen Center in the 1970s and 1980s, and most recently has been active at the Zen Mountain Monastery in Mt. Tremper, NY. He has been encouraged to share his knowledge by two leading Zen masters in New York City, and has also been practicing and teaching Tai Chi Chuan, a mind / body practice, since 1978. David is an active psychotherapist using gestalt therapy, existential therapy, and nonviolent communication (NVC) in his work with individuals, couples, and business leaders.

    Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion after the presentation, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.

    The webinar meeting will take place online via Zoom. The webinar can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking.

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    TERMS OF SERVICE: The information you provide (Name and Email Address) will not be shared, rented, or sold to third parties, but are kept securely in our internal database. You will receive, at reasonable intervals, emailed information with articles or event information. You can unsubscribe at any time. You can read more data usage and terms of service information here.

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  • Saturday, June 7 · 11am EDT (1h 30m)

    Most of us know karma as, basically, the concept that our thoughts and actions have consequences, whether immediately or at s…

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    Most of us know karma as, basically, the concept that our thoughts and actions have consequences, whether immediately or at some future time. Although that statement captures the basic principle of karma, there is significantly more to karma than that.

    Another important teaching is the Four Immeasurables, which can be seen as a solution for creating good karma, leading to liberation. To find our true freedom we need to use our higher capacities as human beings, which help us break free from limitations. Actions that are "clean", and do not create bad karma, help us toward our own and others' liberation.

    Our higher capacities allow us to cultivate a mind that frees itself from following past negative karma, gradually breaking those chains. By connecting to one's unlimited mind rather than to the narrow mind, we can help free ourselves and others from painful complications in living.

    During and after the presentation we will discuss and practice these principles, and enjoy community.

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    The teacher, David B. Alexander, has practiced Zen since 1970, with teachers at the New York Zen Center in the 1970s and 1980s, and most recently has been active at the Zen Mountain Monastery in Mt. Tremper, NY. He has been encouraged to share his knowledge by two leading Zen masters in New York City, and has also been practicing and teaching Tai Chi Chuan, a mind / body practice, since 1978. David is an active psychotherapist using gestalt therapy, existential therapy, and nonviolent communication (NVC) in his work with individuals, couples, and business leaders.

    Note: if any attendee does not wish to join in the discussion after the presentation, but prefers to observe and absorb, that preference will be respected.

    The webinar meeting will take place online via Zoom. The webinar can be joined via ordinary phone, but for a full experience use of a computer will allow observing other attendees and those who are speaking.

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    TERMS OF SERVICE: The information you provide (Name and Email Address) will not be shared, rented, or sold to third parties, but are kept securely in our internal database. You will receive, at reasonable intervals, emailed information with articles or event information. You can unsubscribe at any time. You can read more data usage and terms of service information here.

     

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  • Saturday, June 21 · 11am EDT (2h)

    For this event, there is a short formal presentation introducing the basic concepts of Nonviolent Communication. After that, …

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    For this event, there is a short formal presentation introducing the basic concepts of Nonviolent Communication. After that, we will be applying and sharing those concepts in an unscripted conversation. I will guide and facilitate the conversation to deepen the connections while also protecting the boundaries and needs of participants.

    Each participant can introduce themselves. Depending on the flow of questions and on the preference of the participants, we will have short, enjoyable exercises, interwoven with discussing situations brought in by participants, or else sample situations I provide that we can discuss together.

    Many of my readers have participated in past events together. These past events which I facilitated explored communication in various environments, especially using principles of Nonviolent Communication (also known in my own terminology as Heart-Wise Communication).

    For this confidential event, bring your own personal questions, or bring up issues that have been on your mind regarding relationships, society, and any aspect of communication that is important for you.

    Those who wish to observe are also welcome. Participation can be an enjoyable experience, but is not required.

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It is a martial art and a practice benefiting well-being and physical health. Those active in music and dance performance have also reported important improvements.

Tai Chi Chuan helps our brain free itself from unwanted tensions, promoting an ability to respond productively, compassionately, and with much less stress in life's daily activities.

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